Saturday, February 28, 2009

Still No Country For Old Men

On Friday, February 21st, about 5:30 pm, while sitting calmly at home watching TV while Anne was in Philadelphia helping to welcome our second granddaughter into the world, my heart beat went haywire again! I spent an hour trying to decide if it was going to calm down and if not, could I drive to the nearest hospital where I had been on the morning of the 13th. I had just gotten the bill for that first 8-mile ride and it was $1100.00! I finally decided I'd better go, but I would try to make it myself. I did make it but practically collapsed at the ER admitting desk. I don't know the doctor's name yet, but I will be eternally in her debt. And now I know that feeling of "being kicked in the chest by a mule"! Wow. But it only lasted about two seconds. My pulse returned to almost normal within a few moments. They diagnosed me with ventricular tachycardia, called my cardiologist who said to send me to the VA/Vanderbilt hospital in Nashville -- a 2 1/2 hr ambulance ride. In the meantime the nurses finally got in touch with Anne in Philadelphia and proceeded to scare her to death! 'Wouldn't say anything except someone needed to get there as quickly as possible! On the ride to Nashville, Anne and I connected and I said there was no immediate rush. We decided to call brother Stuart in Versailles who said he would leave early the following morning. I got settled in to ICU and was watched over very closely all night. Next morning, Sunday, Stuart arrived and we spent a rare and valuable, cherished day together. Anne called in the morning to tell me her mother had died that morning. Although it wasn't completely unexpected, it was and is a shock. The loss of one's parents is never easy or without a lot of pain. Once again, my taking Coumadin delayed any serious tests for a few days. Monday morning, Stuart picked up Anne at the airport and brought her to the hospital. Late that afternoon, we decided it best if they would drive on to Chattanooga, spend the night, and Stuart return home on Tuesday and Anne drive our vehicle back to Nashville. On Wednesday, the 25th, the plan was to do a TEE and check for blood clots, then an EP test, then implant an ICD (Implantable Cardio Defibrillator -- pacemaker / defibrillator combo). However, by being off the Coumadin so much recently they found a blood clot which precluded the EP. However they felt it necessary to go ahead and implant the ICD right away for safety's sake. They did and it was successful, although somewhat painful during the process and very sore now. They kept us until Friday noon to keep watch on the ICD and my darling wife drove us back home last night. We go back this coming week for a follow up. While I won't deny it was a scary episode, I feel confident in the doctors and their treatment and, for my part, have certainly given up any bad habits I might have had in the past!

I didn't find any humorous episodes in this hospital visit.... Our love to everyone.

Friday, February 20, 2009

A new GRANDdaughter

Bayla Anne Kaskey made her appearance this morning in Philadelphia with parents, Andria and Michael, assisting. She weighed in at 8 lbs., 14 ounces and everyone is just fine! Baylon was Michael's father's name. There just might be more details and pics to follow, ya think?

Thursday, February 19, 2009

Hospitals -- No Country for Old Men

First, I want to mention how thankful I am for my new hearing aid. It has made a world of difference and even made a difference in Anne's life -- she doesn't have to repeat everything now. I put it off far too long.

Early in the morning on the day of my angiogram, the night nurse and a PCT (personal care technician) came into my room and announced it was time to shave my groin area for the procedure. The night nurse was a cute, friendly young thing with a winning personality. She was very professional and obviously a most capable nurse. That night my PCT was an older black woman with quite a beard and didn't inspire a lot of confidence, but over the past few days we had become quite impressed with her personality, her efficiency, and her easy-going way. I have to admit I wanted her to do the shaving. As it turned out, she did the shaving as soon as Anne and the nurse left the room. Hospitals are no place for privacy or modesty. Anne went downstairs to get some coffee. The PCT left right away and then the nurse came back in, asked if there was anything I needed. I replied "No, thanks." Then standing directly in front of me sitting on the bed she said, " Would you like me to play with you?" Well, that's about as dumbfounded as I have ever been! My mouth dropped open, my face froze, and I was speechless! The only thing I could think of to say was, "Uh, cards....?" She looked me in the eye and said "I said, would you like me to PRAY with you." Oh God, where is the nearest hole for me to crawl in? Why couldn't I have just said, "Excuse me?" Or any other such expression? After what seemed like 30 minutes, I recovered, and said "Yes, please." She never batted an eye, sat down beside me, held my hand and prayed one of the most eloquent, sincere prayers I have ever heard. Needless to say, I didn't hear every word because I didn't have my hearing aid in.

Of course, my family, particularly Aunt Eliza, have been very solicitous and concerned and quick to send "Get well"cards that should make one feel better; witness this card and associate it with my above story!
(click on pic to enlarge)

I suspect I haven't been to church as much as I should have over the years, although I accept Christ, the son of God, as my savior.

When the EMS first came to get me at home about midnight, they took me to the nearest smaller hospital/emergency room where I also received excellent, professional, friendly, and thorough care. About 8:00 am they were readying me for transport to Parkridge Hospital and the nurse who was taking care of me came in the room and said, "Would you like me to anoint you?' At least that's what I THINK I heard.... I said, "Yes." and she pulls out this little vial of liquid from her blouse, puts some on her finger and makes the sign of the cross on my forehead. She explained it was frankincense and myrrh. Another ritual I was unfamiliar with. And then she put her hand on my head and also spoke an eloquent and sincere prayer.

Moral of the story: Believe in God, trust those around you, and LISTEN UP!

The usual February difficulties

On Thursday, February 12th, I suffered a "minor heart attack with little to no damage" to my heart and am now back home feeling fine. The angiogram showed everything to be clear. Cause was unknown. My wife is now in Philadelphia assisting in the arrival Saturday of our second granddaughter! Life is good and we thank God for all our blessings.

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

"There are four questions of value in life...
What is sacred? Of what is the spirit made?
What is worth living for, and what is worth dying for?
The answer to each is the same: only love."

Don Juan DeMarco

Monday, February 9, 2009

Fun in the afternoon!

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Sunday, February 8, 2009

Scrip scraps

I'm not usually the type to watch this kind of movie, BUT.... These two were interesting:
Michael Moore's "Sicko"
A documentary "Harlan County USA"
Is there hope for us?